98: Loneliness

Being alone is a physical state that there isn't anyone around us. But being lonely is an emotional state that there isn't any cheerful and pleasant feeling. Even we feel lonely is a crowd. Moving to new place, breaking up with a partner or close friend and rejection from a community where we've belonged to, may make us solitary. But we should be able to cope with loneliness to diminish dire consequences such as depression, emptiness and getting paralyzed by being lonely. In my point of view first of all we should identify the reason of our loneliness and afterward find a good solution to get rid of it. Above of all we should consider that loneliness is a normal feeling so sometimes it's necessary to be alone, have some meditation on our deeds and discover our abilities and potential to make a happy life. Anyway solitude is fine but we need someone to tell that solitude is fine.

In my view,people with some special characteristics are more likely to experience loneliness in their lives.examples are people with sensitive personality or those who are more sociable as well as extrovert people.what do you think about it,are extroverted people more in danger of feeling loneliness than other people?

In resonse to are extroverted people more in danger of feeling loneliness than other people? In my opinion Feeling loneliness depends on how much a person feels emptiness and unhappiness in solitude . Therefore an extrovert might experience loneliness as much as introvert. The matter is the level of being satisfied and contented with life whether in loneliness or crowd- it's not up to personality type.

In my opinion felling,most of people have depression.but the messeure is defference.

In my view sine extroverted people are more in need of being in contact with others and they are more happy if they are accepted by other people so they are more in danger because there are many people who don’t have positive personality and they don’t mind if their words or behaviors bother others; so extroverted people are likely to face with them and their feelings and personality are more breakable. They need to be accepted by others and need others to be satisfied in life.  In contrast the introverted people feel something in themselves and they aren’t in need of others to be happy. They are more self-centered and somehow independent and they aren’t dependent on others’ approvals so people with negative attitudes and personality won’t bother them. In other words they may be physically lonely but in fact they don’t feel loneliness

Being alone means when you are alone and there's none around you physically but you may be happy and enjoy yourself, but being lonely means when you think there's none to understand you, to be with you, hear you and even if there are many people around you you will feel sad and can't enjoy your life. Everyone needs to be alone sometimes to spend time with themselves, think deeply about themselves or even not to do anything but I think being lonely sometimes isn't very good, it may cause depression although in some cases it works as a motivation.

Being lonely is a sense when you are unhappy because of you are alone and you couldn't talk with another.  I think, lonely is a sense that refered to alone, in the other hand, I think you might be alone but you don’t unhappy. Although, sometimes people need to free time and spend on time for himself/herself , after a couple years/months they will be so depressed and they will need to talk with other people.

First of all, let us take a look at each words meaning. In my point of view alone has a physical meaning. It refers to someone who has no one around physically but lonely is about the feeling of being alone. As the matter of the fact being alone does’t mean loneliness. Another point worth noting is the negative impression of loneliness but being alone doesn’t have such negative impression. Many people claim that they are not alone and when you look closer you will find out they are true but if you dig more you can find a hole in each one’s heart that shows even if they are not alone but really feel lonely. Unfortunately we live in an age when many of us just care about ourselves and it makes all of us a lonely person although there are a lot of friends and family around. It is often said that being alone is harmful for our mental health but I can see a lot of advantages in being alone. For example I think when you are alone you have more time and you can do whatever you want without any worries of others. On the other hand you can live your life more freely with concentration of your favorite things. But you should not let it lead you to be a lonely person.